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Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

Your Marketing Allocation is Backwards

Something to ponder….


You’re a dealer and 85% of your advertising budget is geared towards attracting new clients, and 15% towards retaining your clientele. Yet your new clients make up 30% of your business.  So you're spending 85% of your budget on the 30% and only 15% on the 70%.  To top it off, of that 85%, you allocate 85% of your budget to traditional marketing and 15% to digital marketing.

 

Confused yet?

I can’t honestly say that this is how the majority of dealers operate, but I can say with confidence that there are dealers who are still investing in this ineffective approach to marketing.

 

4 Marketing Questions that you must ask yourself;

 

  1. How much of your advertising budget is targeted towards drawing in new clients?
  2. How much of your advertising budget is targeted towards retaining clients?
  3. Which client is more financially valuable to the company?
  4. Would you agree that you could lower your advertising budget and maintain your sales volume by targeting repeat/referral clients?

 

Traditionally, we focus our advertising on the price of our vehicles which influences buyers to think price first when they contact us.  Then, our Managers and Sales Trainers tell us to stay off the price as much as possible.  Not all dealers market this way anymore, but some do, and it’s part of the reason why we have a lack of trust between consumers and dealers.  Price still has to be a part of advertising but we must incorporate our unique value proposition.  Why should they choose you?

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Sherri Riggs

DrivingSales

May 5, 2018  

Brandin I love this! I think sometimes we get stuck in routine and get scared to try new things. But seeing the numbers laid out like this really paints a strong picture.

C L

Automotive Group

May 5, 2018  

You’re spot on.

I always say that Acquiring new customers is expensive, acquiring conquest customer even more expensive, retaining a customer is least expensive and makes for better experience. 

 

Derrick Woolfson

Beltway Companies

May 5, 2018  

@Brandin, excellent article! Spot on. What really fascinates me, too is that it seems to be a no-brainer to spend more to *retain* previous clients as they often *spend* more money!! Offering a much better ROI than a new customer who will most likely expect a larger discount, which is why it costs as much as $600+ to acquire a new customer. 

Pierre Legault

H Gregoire Group

May 5, 2018  

I think you have to balance this somehow. You cannot live off of your current customer base. You need to spread the word out and aim for conquest customers. It is expected to cost a lot more to find a new customer, but you have to spend that money to keep that 70%-30% balance. Once you stop spending that money, your ratio will end up being 80-20 and then 90-10 and then you'll close shop. A good in-house strategy combined with great tools and staff on boarding in your plan will have a great success at retention. I agree that 85-15 spending on current versus conquest is a bit high, but a 60-40 spending will do wonders. as for Digital, you are right, spend 85% on digital and 15% on traditional... or 100% digital...

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

Contradictive Marketing

I define contradictive marketing as misleading the public with your product or service for your personal gain.  It borders on false advertising and every dealer has been guilty of it at one point or another.  The majority of dealers still operate this way unfortunately, but there are a minority of dealers, including Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd., that have chosen to take an authentic approach to marketing, and it’s paying far higher dividends than contradictive marketing ever could.


See if your dealer is guilty of contradictive marketing and what you can do to get away from it.


Examples of contradictive marketing:

 

“Our prices won’t be beat!” – Yes they will

“We are the friendliest dealer in town!” – No you’re not

“We have excellent customer service!” – You have a 3 Star Rating

“Come in for a hassle free buying experience!” – You host a 3rd party private sale monthly

“All on-site vehicles only $77 per month!” – For the first 6 months only (slightly misleading)

“Your relationship is important to us!” – Sends automated emails, letters, and pop-up chat is a person that doesn’t work at the dealership

“Yes we have this advertised vehicle in stock” – No you don’t and you know it

 

It’s fair to say that some dealers may be oblivious to contradictive marketing as they truly believe they are the friendliest dealer in town.  But the ones who advertise that they have excellent customer service with a 3 star rating are intentionally misleading the potential consumer.

 

We get caught in this trap as dealers because we’re so focused on the next deal.  The more focused you are on the next customer, the easier it is to forget about taking care of the last one that bought from you.


For those who choose to be in this for the long-term, call it the “Infinite Game”, they understand that marketing the answers to the following questions is a more valuable marketing strategy.  One that is genuine and true to the dealership and its employees, which translates onto the client.  This generates more loyalty and higher repeat/referral business, the most valuable kind of business there is.

 

  • What’s your unique value proposition?
  • Why do you do what you do?
  • Do you provide thank you prizes to your clients that bought recently or are you part of the majority where they attempt to bribe their next client through extravagant prizes (ex: if you buy now, then you’ll get this)?
  • Does your entire team understand and know why you do what you do?
  • Are the front-line people aligned with your vision?

 

If your team doesn’t understand the previous two questions or know the answers to them, then your clients can’t either, no matter how much money you waste on advertising.

I think you would agree that the consumer is far more educated today than they were even 5 years ago, as an industry, it’s time we become smarter with our marketing.

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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5 Comments

May 5, 2018  

There are some great examples here of things dealers say in their marketing that they "believe" but don't actually deliver on. When the owners, executives, managers and worker bees all understand the vision goals it's different. I've worked for a dealer who strives to follow up on the commitments it puts out there in its marketing, big difference! 

Derrick Woolfson

Beltway Companies

May 5, 2018  

@Brandin, great points! Especially the cliche value statements in which case are most often not true - where the customer just wants their questions answered. It should not be a struggle. 

Chris K

Supersports

May 5, 2018  

Very important subject and I'm extremely cognizant of this. I just added cdk connected store to be transparent my sales manager saw it for the first time when it went live and he said the site looks great but you just got to take off the finance payments in the lease payment customizer. I told him no we're not. I'm a little tired of following all the great advice over many decades as a digital marketing guy/ internet sales manager/ and all the petty crap we've had to contend with over the years.  Many of us have poured our hearts into this, followed through with everything I'm supposed to, best practices, Digital Dealer award recipient, but have to deal with the managers that doesn't want to play the internet the right way. They all can go to hell because I know how this works. From when you spot an ad or CE of EDP online connect with our BTC who convinces you to visit our dealership because we will take very good care of you, and then give all of our promises and hand them over to the sales department in hopes that they don't screw up all the good that we just did. And it's the job of the sales department to deliver on the Promises of all the branding & advertising such as we've got the best price in town, blah blah. Well damn it give it to them the first second they come into the dealership and let's stop playing games.

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018  

Couldn't agree more Chris! And you're message is bang on with Dale Pollak's (founder of vAuto) new book "Like I See It" which I'd highly recommend to you. Here's a brief section of my personal notes that I took relating to what you're talking about: 

 

Chapter 4: From the Upper Hand to the Giving Hand

  • It used to be less transparent so consumers were easily taken advantage of and they were none the wiser
  • Perhaps if today's consumer understood the old way of selling, they would appreciate how it's done today.  At the very least, it's a little transparent
  • Traditional selling isn't meeting today's consumer expectations
  • It's imperative to keep pricing consistent across all channels
  • Buyers want transparency yet dealers are reluctant to provide it. Those who do, have an advantage
  • Information from AutoTrader (think BidzAuto as its a win/win for dealer and consumer):
    • 72% of Consumers want to spend less time at the dealership
    • 56% want to start the process online
    • 45% want to remain anonymous until completely necessary
  • Trust and responsiveness trump price according to Driving Sales
  • 56% of consumers would buy from the same dealership again if this preferred way of dealing was met
  • Consumers want dealers to give the price first, they want us to make the first move
  • 3 Steps to lend a helping hand:
    • 1. Engage
    • 2. Communicate
    • 3. Automate
  • What's the goal with your website? To get an appointment, sell a vehicle, start a conversation? How is your website aligned with your goal now?
  • Let the consumer structure the deal without providing personal information for optimal success (payments, price, term, finance rates, etc. available without providing info)
  • 85% of consumers want the F&I information before getting a quote
  • 66% of consumers say they would purchase if they had the appropriate information ahead of time
  • At some dealers in the States now, they are making more per transaction and closing at a higher rate online for F&I than they are at the dealership

Mark Nicholson

Absolute Results

May 5, 2018  

Contradictive marketing would be counter productive. The pool of customers is not endless, and shady ops will pay eventually. 

Most marketers track their efforts, and can tell you whether a campaign is effective.
I believe if one were to properly track the ROI of contradictive marketing, they would find it to do more harm than good.

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

3 Reasons to give your Sales Team more independence

Dealerships can be systemized to the point that it reduces creativity, new ideas, potential, and growth.  This is particularly true in the sales process.  While structure is critical to success, there should be some level of leniency otherwise it becomes counter-productive.

 

Here are 3 reasons to give your Sales Consultant more independence;

 

Clients want less interruption during the process

I’ve sold and managed at a decent sized dealership where we sold 800 total retail units annually, and also at a dealership that’s half that size.  Being a part of both allowed me to see first-hand the pros and cons of having strict processes and more independence for the Sales Consultant.  From an Owners perspective, I prefer more independence for the team. 

We’re probably in agreeance that leadership will yield higher returns than micro-management.  If that’s true, then wouldn’t it make sense to give more freedom to your sales team to make decisions with effective guidance of course, versus doing the deciding for them? I’m assuming you hire from within for your Management team if that’s true, then wouldn’t it make sense to have your sales team grow and develop their management skills early with your leadership rather than putting them into the big office unprepared? And I think it’s fair to say that confidence leads to more sales.  If that’s true, wouldn’t your sales team feel more confident in making quick decisions with the client? And when the sales consultant is confident, the client becomes confident in them as well.

Setting up a culture like this requires trust, empathy, and leadership.  Take a step back and let your sales team take more control of the sale. Start slow if that’s what makes you feel most comfortable, but at the very least, start. 

Where could you delegate more during the sales process?

Ask your sales team what they feel could improve the process, implement and lead the way!

 

Encourages accountability and praise

People want to be held accountable so they can improve, or if they don’t, then you shouldn’t want them in your dealership. And there are multiple benefits to receiving praise.

It can be intimidating for the sales consultant to start making bigger decisions on behalf of the dealership. This is why it’s important to have leadership and a culture that allows for mistakes to happen and as long as the sales consultant is held accountable for the mistake and learns from it.  Allow them to share with you where things went wrong and why then walk them through what they did well and where they could improve.  From here, watch their development unfold and when it does, be sure to praise them.

There are multiple studies* that prove the positive impact praise and recognition has not only on the sales consultant but on the business as a whole.  When sales consultants are praised and recognized for their development, they become more productive, engaged, and more loyal.  For your business, this means you’ll have less turnover, achieve better results, and have a culture that encourages trust and communication.

It’s easy to think we’re doing enough in this category, but more often than not, we aren’t.  Don’t wait for a sales meeting to give praise and recognition to someone.  Do it the moment you find out or witness the event happen.  You know how good it feels to receive recognition for your efforts, it has a direct impact on your confidence, and confident people sell cars. So do that for your team!

 

Promotes respect for your management team

By letting them make more decisions, you’re giving them insight to what it’s like to make decisions at a management level which will lead to more respect from your sales team to the management team.  I’m not talking about the fake respect that tends to happen between an inferior and their superior, but a true, genuine respect because they are living it. They will have more appreciation for the pressure you face on the multiple decisions you have to make in a day.

The respect that’s developed, because it’s genuine, promotes a healthy culture which has a positive impact on the entire dealership.  This translates into more repeat and referral clientele which we all know is the most valuable kind.  It all starts by simply giving more control to your sales consultant over the deal.  And by leading more and micro-managing less.  Often times, it’s the seemingly subtle improvements you implement in the business that makes the biggest difference.

 

*https://www.trainingjournal.com/articles/feature/power-praise-and-recognition

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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May 5, 2018  

I really agree strongly with your point on accountability and praise. Too often salespeople are held accountable for what they don't do and aren't praised for all they do do. Haha, I said do do... anyway, THIS mentality is what makes the difference and creates an environment capable of extraordinary results! 

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018  

haha agreed Scott!

 

Al Amersdorfer

Automotive Internet Tehnologies

May 5, 2018  

Well said Brandin Wilkinson if you really want to improve your sales and more importantly performance of your sales team then give them independence. Let them handle leads and clients directly it will improve their confidence  and they can handle customers very well. Being a automotive dealership BDC expert i can understand that giving independence to your sales team can give you good results. 

Mark Nicholson

Absolute Results

May 5, 2018  

Dealers that leave their sales people to fend for themselves typically see recurring results, but those that invest in their people see growth in sales.

Without training the cycle continues, since there’s no new ideas, techniques or processes introduced.

 

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

The 5 Benefits of Synergized Compounding

The plan originally was to introduce this when my new book comes out in the coming weeks, but I thought I’d give you a brief on it early.


So what is synergized compounding?

Synergized Compounding is a collection of the long-term benefits you receive from contributing to your team’s success.

 

Here is a short summary of its 5 benefits;

1. Attracts More Clients for You and the Dealership

When you work well together in every department and avoid the impenetrable walls that seem to be put up at some dealers, you create a trusting culture that becomes noticeable to the public. Potential clients are more likely to buy and stay loyal to a dealership that provides a culture that’s genuinely built on trust, honesty, integrity, teamwork, and healthy relationships in the dealership. This is why it’s important to start your day at the dealership by staying connected to your teammates.

 

2. Improves Morale

It’s a gratifying feeling knowing your positive attitude has a direct impact on the morale of all those around you. There are multiple effective strategies that are mentioned throughout this book that will help you sustain a positive energy, but I want to talk about the benefits that giving has on you and your support team. 

The benefits of giving are well known and documented. Benefits include happiness, improved health, team camaraderie, gratitude, increased income, and reciprocation. Plus, it’s contagious. When you give without the expectation of receiving, it’s an empowering feeling.

 

3. Creates Synergy

When I think of synergy, I think of the 1980 United States Men’s Olympic Hockey Team. You may know them as “The Miracle on Ice.” Perhaps it’s because the US Networks are playing it on repeat since the US Team defeated our Canadian Women’s team during the 2018 Winter Olympics. Much like the Russians in the 1960’s and 70’s, our Canadian Woman’s Hockey Team has dominated over the years so naturally this was a historical moment in the US Team’s History.

But what was it about the 1980 Miracle on Ice team that made them special? If you remember the story, the average age was 21, and the team was comprised of rival schools. How is it that rivals can make up one of the greatest Olympic Teams in history? Because Herb Brooks wasn’t looking for the best players, he was looking for the right players. Players who had heart, work ethic, proper attitude, and a willingness to play for something greater than themselves. When a group of people come together for a greater cause than themselves, that’s synergy.

 

4. Generates a Higher Repeat/Referral Rate

There is no argument that the most valuable form of marketing is word of mouth. When you start to view your clients as walking billboards, your perception on how they are treated within every department completely changes. Building your own repeat and referral database requires time, but you can start working on it immediately. Acknowledging and helping clients in the waiting room for service and offering support and help to your teammates requires no experience, only effort. You do need patience to go along with this effort. But, over time, it will compound into business that will keep your sales funnel full at all-times.  Talk to any successful Sales Consultant, past or present, and they will tell you that life becomes far less stressful when you’re dealing with repeat and referral clients.

 

5. It’s a Win-Win-Win

Synergized Compounding is a win for you, win for your teammates, and a win for the client. It’s a win for you because you are receiving leads from your team on a regular basis. Their friends and family are likely to buy from the dealership they work at, so they’ll be referring them to someone. It’s your job as an entrepreneur to give yourself the best opportunity to attract those leads to your business. How many teammates do you have outside of the Sales Department? How close would you rate your relationship with them on a scale of 1-10?

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity

“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. Because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well worn path; and that will make all the difference.” - Steve Jobs

 

2003 - 2007:

Barely graduated from high school (52% on final exam)

Struggled to find my way Lived off soup crackers and tap water for weeks

Worked multiple jobs

 

2007 - 2013:

Accidentally stumbled into the auto industry on a gut instinct

Married my wife and had our first child

Sales Consultant to Sales Manager to General Manager

Lost 6 years of clientele info after being thrown under the bus by a trusted colleague

Left the GM dealership, went to a Chrysler one for a fresh start

Partnered with the dealership

 

2013 - 2018:

My wife and I had our second child

Grew the sales volume 61% at the dealership

Became majority shareholder then moved from Manitoba to BC

Started ReThink Selling

Wrote a book

Got BidzAuto going which will disrupt the auto industry 

 

We can all feel lost at times, especially during the difficult situations we find ourselves in from time to time.  Follow your instincts, trust yourself, know that everything happens for a reason, discover and go all-in on your strengths, and develop an unbreakable momentum. 

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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R. J. James

3E Business Consulting

May 5, 2018  

Reminds me of what Harold Rowan use to say, "Problems are only OPPORTUNITIES in Disguise!"

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

I hope this helps

I put up an introductory video the other day where I shared that I truly enjoy sharing and learning from others.

 

With that said, here are my notes from the book “As a Man Thinketh” by James Allen. One of my favorite books of all-time. We don't have to limit ourselves to the automotive industry for training and development, we can use outside resources and based on experience, they can often be more useful than some of the traditional automotive sales training that's available today.

 

All my best, 

Brandin

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

Leveraging LinkedIn for more Sales

I don't need a LinkedIn profile nor do I need to be active on it because I am not leaving my position and I own the dealership.  
 

This was my naive thought towards LinkedIn only a few short years ago.  This is because I didn't understand how to leverage it to my advantage and I underestimated its educational power.  Since coming to the realization that LinkedIn is far more than a resume platform, I've elevated my network far beyond a level I could have ever hoped for.  


Richard Branson is quoted as saying "succeeding in business is all about connections." This has proven true not only for my example but many others as well.  It's a platform where you have the opportunity to build your online reputation which is becoming more relevant and valuable as time goes on, it allows you to reach out and connect with thought leaders in your industry, and if you use it properly, allows you to create your own content based on past and current experiences.

 

When I first joined LinkedIn, I had no intentions of writing books, getting a startup going that will disrupt the automotive industry, or being a Sales Coach.  But you never know where life is going to take you and I'm thankful that I started the LinkedIn journey before pursuing these unexpected ventures because it has amplified the awareness for these companies as well as our dealership, Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.  

 

Yakov Savitskiy is the thought leader for LinkedIn and provides invaluable content that is sure to improve your outlook on LinkedIn and its underrated ability to generate more sales no matter what your title is.

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018

Management is easy!

Almost anyone could be a Manager, but few are effective Leaders.  Often times, it’s one of the top performing Sales Consultants who gets promoted to Sales Manager.  They put their time in, usually 2 or 3 years (right when their repeat/referral business picks up), they show signs of responsibility, teamwork, discipline, strong work ethic, and other qualities you’d want in a Manager.  It’s not that this is the wrong move necessarily, it’s the lack of training prior to taking on the role of Manager that’s the problem.

 

Based on experience and conversations with other Sales Managers in the Automotive Industry, rarely is there a structure in place that provides an appropriate amount of training prior to taking on the position and the necessary ongoing training that must ensue in order to have your sales team reach their potential.  By putting a top-performing Sales Consultant into a Management role inadequately prepared, you’re sending someone to that office that isn’t yet qualified for the position. This negatively affects their performance for an undetermined amount of time, plus it slows down sales because you take your best performer off the floor.

Sure, the Sales Manager could effectively close deals, provide numbers, set targets with the team, follow up with the team to make sure they are doing their follow up calls, and have meetings, but that’s not leading, that’s managing.  And this is what I mean when I say anyone could be a Manager. Leading is different.  Leading requires sustaining motivation, providing a positive culture, developing intrinsic motivation, creating a purpose within your department and organization, and arguably most important, self-leadership.  If you can’t lead yourself, then you’re not in a position to lead others. 

 

If you’re in a Management position, it’s important to be aware of the amount of influence you have on your team.  For many of them, you are their mentor, someone they look up to.  Your actions play a role in their behavior and management style when it’s their turn. There isn’t a one and done course for leadership, it’s an everyday commitment.  If you’re a Sales Consultant waiting to get the nod to the big office but aren’t prepared or ready to make the commitment, then I’d encourage you to hold off until you are.  You’re not doing yourself or your team any favors by jumping into the role too early.  It’s difficult to find the time to learn and progress every day so you must make the time like you would if it was a doctor’s appointment.  Make the commitment or don’t.  Choose to lead more and manage less.

My 84-year-old grandfather who could still outwork me always says “there’s a right way and a wrong way to do things son, and there ain’t no in-between.”

I’ve written extensively and even dedicated an entire chapter to this in my new book where I lay out questions to ask before sitting in the big chair.  You can also check out my 5 Rules on Effective Leadership here as well. 

Make it a great day!

Brandin

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

Apr 4, 2018

3 Ways to Escape Mental Prison

Have you ever had someone imply that sales is easy? I used to be that guy.  Isn’t that frustrating? Little do people know who aren’t in the game the pressure, rejection, long hours, uncertainty of never knowing how much your next cheque is going to be, and what often seems like a thankless job at times. There’s definitely more good than bad, but the challenge lies in balancing the rollercoaster of emotions. 

I used to be immune to burn out and was your typical workaholic. I felt I could handle everything that was thrown at me and I welcomed it because I took pride in being the busiest person in the dealership.  Until it finally all caught up to me.  For the last 2 years, I’ve lived completely stress-free and it’s changed not only my life, but those who I surround myself with regularly as well.

How do you go from hitting your stress threshold to living stress-free virtually overnight?  First, I’m not a doctor nor claim to be, the following strategies are what have worked for me and I’d like to share them with you in hopes that if you’re in a similar situation or know of someone in this situation, you can free yourself from the mental prison you or someone you know is in.

 

#1. Protection through visualization

I started visualizing myself every morning with the people I care about most all in a circle of light with everything else dark around us.  All I see is myself and those closest to me in this circle.  When I start to feel stress, anxiety, depression, or any other negative emotion coming on in different situations, it becomes my responsibility to protect that circle of light from those negative emotions with everything I have.  If I let any of that darkness creep into my circle of light, not only do those negative emotions affect me, but they affect those in my circle as well because I can’t be my best for them when I’m stressed.  These negative emotions don’t stand a chance against someone who’s motivated to protect those closest to him with everything he has!

 

#2. Practice Meditation

This one was a stretch for me because as someone who is active and likes to stay busy, sitting still in silence for 10 minutes wasn’t something I was initially attracted to.  But the more biographies I read on successful entrepreneurs, the more I found a common theme which was the vast majority of them practice some form of meditation daily.  This was enough to convince me to give it a shot.  An app recommendation that kept coming up was one called “Headspace” and I’d like to recommend it to you as well.  It’s the best tool to use for beginners.  In order to maximize antidote #1, you need to put this one in place first and start your day with a clear conscience.  Headphones, darkness, and 10-minutes alone is all you need every morning.  I promise it’s worth the investment in time!

 

 

#3. Share Gratitude

Why do we have to wait for Thanksgiving to share thanks around the dinner table? Why couldn’t we make this a common practice?  It’s impossible to be grateful and feel negative at the same time.  So why not give yourself the best opportunity to succeed by being aware and grateful for the little things we tend to take for granted? Tell your spouse without warning that you’re thankful for their support, love, connection, and friendship.  Appreciate your material items, there is always someone who wishes they had what you have.  Be grateful for your health, sight, hearing, opportunity, lifestyle, and anything else that’s easily taken for granted.  Start your morning off by writing down something your grateful for, leave a notepad by your bedside so it triggers your brain to get in the habit of doing this, and tell your spouse and/or children what they mean to you, or text a friend just to check in and see how they’re doing.  All of these things lead to feeling better about yourself, thus reducing stress before your day begins and keeping it under control throughout the day.

 

I’ll leave you with one last crucial antidote against negative emotions… progression.  Progress somehow physically and/or mentally every single day.  What I’ve found is that progression leads to confidence, sense of accomplishment, and pride. It leaves you with a feeling of achievement at the end of the day and encourages you to do the same for tomorrow because you want that feeling again.  It develops momentum.  I hope this serves you well!

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Kelly Kleinman

Dealership News

Apr 4, 2018  

Nice piece BW.  I'll bet you're enjoying those Jeep sales lately!

Bart Wilson

DrivingSales

Apr 4, 2018  

Love love love #3.  Showing gratitude is something we don't do enough today.  

Gregg Easterbrook has a great book titled The Progress Paradox that you may find interesting.  He delves into why we have more today than we've ever had yet we are less happy than previous generations.  Spoiler alert: it's gratitude.

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

Apr 4, 2018  

Awesome thank you for the recommendation Bart! And yes I’ve learned a focus shift from expecting to have certain material items or having things go a certain way to appreciating what I have and live in the moment. Complete game changer. 

R. J. James

3E Business Consulting

May 5, 2018  

Bradin... GREAT Post!!!  With over 35 years of corporate management and consulting, I STRONGLY and PASSIONATELY agree with Number One (Visualize the Protective Positive) and Number Three (Gratitude).  That is why, to subordinates, clients, friends, and mentees; I passionately and consistently say/reinforce that Family is FIRST and the Job is SECOND!"  Having been blessed to manage and/or consult several REALLY Great Teams, I have learned the power of GRATITUDE (Recognize, Encourage, Thank everyone personally and publicly for their individual and collective efforts).

In conclusion, Numbers One and Three have shown me how truly BLESSED I am!

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

May 5, 2018  

Fantastic R.J.!  Keep spreading the positive vibes!

Dave Page

CreditMiner

May 5, 2018  

Great read!

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

Apr 4, 2018

Have you ever tried a Nappucino?

Neither have I, but I'm curious to try one out because it has the potential to be one of the greatest productivity hacks we've ever seen.

 

Nappucino - Taking a shot of caffeine at 2:00pm before having a power nap for 20 minutes. You’ll wake up feeling like you slept for 8 hours and ready to power through the rest of the day having more energy after the nap then you did when you woke up. The idea behind having a cup of coffee or a shot of caffeine right before your nap is that it takes 25 minutes for the caffeine to take full effect.  So when you wake up after 20 minutes, it's like you get a power boost because not only will you feel rested, but the caffeine has now taken its full effect. Seriously. Check out “When” by Daniel Pink.

 

I can't make this stuff up!  We haven't tried it at the dealership yet but I'm open-minded and willing to give it a shot to see if it works. Would have to figure out how to make it work at the prime time which is 2:00 in the afternoon.  This is all data backed and based on numerous studies which are the authorship styles Daniel Pink is best known for. 

 

Who knows, this could be one of the greatest productivity hacks of all-time or not work at all.  But when you read the book, it's hard to argue against the facts!

Brandin Wilkinson

Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd.

President / Owner

Author - ReThink Selling: Why You Only Know 20% of Sales (coming summer of 2018) Owner - Woodworth Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ram Ltd. Founder - ReThink Selling www.rethinksellingu.com Founder - BidzAuto... disrupting the automotive industry starting September 2018 Top 40 Under 40 Automotive Professional in North America

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Apr 4, 2018  

I'm trying this! :) Thanks! 

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